Closure. And cheers to new beginnings.

Understanding comes with time and experience. She didn't know this. 

Over the past year, it felt like she'd grown up 5 years. She used to live in a world so tiny, he and only he, mattered. But since that day, her world was opened up to a whole lot more than it used to be. 

People say that breakups are always not one side's fault. She agrees but disagrees. And then only now, she finally knew, he wasn't entirely wrong. She has her faults without knowing, though not knowing is not any excuse. He wasn't any better, but surely he knew better. About personal space, about trust, about independence and so much more, she now nods in silence whenever what he said rings in her head. He had tried to teach her, to no avail of course. And this was her lesson. A lesson is called a lesson for a reason. Well, she has learned to forgive herself the moment these senses come to her. After all, she somehow knew it would all make sense one day if she was patient enough.

As for him, whatever is done is the past and forgiven. It sure is true that his love wasn't as much as hers, but she knows now it's as difficult in his shoes, if not more. Time and experience sure showed her that. So to that one last chance, she wants to thank him, for being kind enough to feel he probably owes her at least that try--that try to give in full effort to love her once, and letting her go harsh enough after knowing he did his best. She thanks him for his last efforts, because she now knows it must not have been easy.

All in all, she is still glad she met him. Three years is not long, but he is part of her growth. He has given her so much to feel, from love to hate, from good to bad, from wrong to right, so much. He is the reason she stepped out of home, and started her journey. If it wasn't for him, she would never end up in this place where she is now, so contented with the place, her job and the people surrounding her. 

He might not have been the ideal one, but he sure was an epic one.





I have a confession to make.

She, is me.

And I'm ready to be friends with you. Whenever you're ready. =)

JT

宁愿爱上一个不能拥有的人
也不要拥有一个不能爱上的人

and so
the mind lost to the heart
and he was set free

同理心

做人  就要像人一样的活着
要有慈悲心  廉恥心  孝心
更重要的  要有同理心

要有自知之明  却戒对号入座

人与人的信任
要给  可也要懂得慎重的给

懂的  可以越多越好
可是说的  要越少越好

要以同理心善待人
可勿让人因缺同理心而以怨报徳



_____

阵阵的头疼  断断续续的持续了三天
加上之前的种种怪症状
最近身体是怎么了

挥霍

“被爱是奢侈的幸福
  而你    依然挥霍着”

cny huat ahhh!!

omgomgomg... emoness lai liao~~
now is a bad time to watch 星光 final epi...
so emotional la all of them thank mum thank dad thank family back home..
wuwuuuuwuuuuuu~~~
i wan go home also ahhh
2nd cny not home..
so near yet so far ><

k..
back to reality..
i am ok leh actually really..
not crying just drop i think 5 drop of tears only la..
lalalaaa...

happy cny ppl~
huat ahhhh!!!

rooming & ralph

happy day
(can skip this post actually, i just feel like documenting it..)

stress at work today..
got caught by surprise to do rooming in 10mins after informing me
with the most experienced one n plenty of other seniors watching
tongue tied n stomach tied
messed up alot and gave a whole lot of wrong info but still got quite nice n unexpected feedback
yikess...
they're too nice la..
gotta catch up n improve a lot.. aza aza aza!! >_<

went to movies too..
wreck it!!!
quite childish but i like the candy rush place..yumm..
post xmas party aside, this is the first outing time with colleagues eh..
not bad..bonding bonding...

side note:
it's not easy to find a job which is so stressful yet at the same time so enjoyable.. challenging n interesting... really really really wanna do this well...finally got this feeling from a job..eeeeeksss!! ^^



btw..just wanna share this.. 1:54



你还是要幸福
你千万不要再招惹别人哭
所有错误从我这里落幕
别跟着我铭心刻骨

i now free u from all guilts.

>_< wish wish wish

2012 xmas wish 

+

2013 new year wish

只希望能尽快掌握这份工的上下左右前后内外

看人家驾轻就熟的真的好爽

懵懵懂懂的好难过啊 >_<

甘叭爹~~~~~~~~

Sherine's convo

just some photos of the day to share.. photo credit: Jason Chu~

 congratz dear~

the mighty photographer of the day, carrying the heavy camera n big bunch of flower around..

her family n extended family ^^

hehe im spotlight =P

one last photo of me n dear~

朋友,
我知道你的原则,
不关你的事你不会干涉.
只要你有能力帮的你就会帮,
剩余的你会让他自己判断自己决定,
即使你知道是错,
不关你的事你一概不会干涉.

可是这事太撤,
我没办法听了就算.
怎么可以对和错模糊不清?
怎么可以拿生命开玩笑?
即使是不认识的人我也会看不过去,
更何况这是曾被我当家人的人...
我不能接受这样破坏规矩,
也不能接受把生命当儿戏.

你有你的原则我不是怪你帮他.
只是我没办法知道当不知道,
他怎样错也就让他去.
虽然不关我的事,
但我做不到那样.

所以,

对不起,
我说听了算,
可是我食言了.
违反我的原则我真的做不到.

有故事的人

赖淞凤 - 问/陈淑桦


赖淞凤 - 真实/张惠妹


赖淞凤 - 错的人/萧亚轩


有故事的人
特别的迷人 =)

加油赖淞凤~！